sulking sucks!!

hello thr,
I just want to tell you something about my so called friend and her life which is so full of complaints.Its so freaking and bloody annoying.Let me call her 'sulky'.I met Sulky while doing my Bsc and she was my classmate from then till my Msc and unfortunately she is doing her project in the same institute as mine.
Let me brief about her background.She is a middle class girl born and brought up in kerala.She is eldest in the family with one brother younger to her.She is ok looking and entirely NO to guys,party and fun.She adores mallu movies and songs(by the way she sings quite well)and occasionally watches bollywood movies.She almost faints when she sees any woman(esp bollywood)who is half naked or when she hears any offensive words.The only "trait" that is so unique in her is that she complaints about everyone and everything in this world.There is 0%exaggeration in it.She royally does it.
Let me give you one situation.This is a summary of what is happening in her life right now.She happened to slip on the stairs last Saturday and got a bad sprain.Her right foot is swollen and she is limping right now.I will tell you her exact dialogues.
Me:Hey,how do you feel?
Sulky:Oh!its becoming worse day by day.See,its swollen more.
Me:is it painful?
Sulky:Very!I cant even walk properly...See,I am limping.
Me:I think it will take a day or so..after that it should be fine!
Sulky:No way!I am sure it will atleast take 2 weeks for the pain to subside and I am sure I am going to find it so hard to do anything now.
Me:Cmon!don say that!it will be alright.
Sulky:Ente Ishwara(My God)!it has to happen now only!I have got exams coming up and have plenty of work to do in the lab.Everytime i get into some trouble or the other.Why is it happening to me?I dont know what made me go into those steps that day.I should have simply sat and watched TV.See look at my kashtakalam(Bad time in life).What am i gonna do?
I had this irrecovable urge to bang her head on the wall,instead I pulled down the urge into a form of silence.
What pleasure do they get if they complain like this?We all do complain in our life but that lasts for like 5 min or less.What is she doing?Its a form of meditation for her,to concentrate on how to complain about everything.
And if anyone looks at her life,they can very well see that she does get something or the other to complain about.Its like the law of attraction.You complain about something and you keep receiving things that will make you complain about it.She has problems with her spinal cord,she is allergic to most of the medicines,she has migraine,she has problems with her studies..etc..etc..
Is this life?She is just 22 and it is this time that she should be responsible at the same time have fun in life.Any one could lead their life in much better way.You should get attracted to those things that give you happiness.You should do stuff that makes you happy.You should be with people that make you happy.You should be happy and make others happy.But such people are scared of happiness.
They are scared if they become happy now ,will they become sad later?I can tell you its all part of the way they are brought up.She is from a very orthodox family who is so religious.Being religious is a good thing if you know how to use it well.Parents while bringing up kids should realise how their kids are growing up.They should explain to them the way their kids should lead their life.In sulky's case,if her parents try to somehow convince her that complaining won't help her achieve her goals,she would atleast try to change herself.Instead,parents either keep watching or simply laugh it away as a joke.How is it funny is the question I ask then?Its about her life!
So the moral of the story is to lessen complaining.If you want some change in the way things move,take some action.There is absolutely no point in complaining whatsoever.You can change this habit before you become a part of their silly complaints.

hmm..hmm..hmm..not a good one aha!!;)
Thalia!