Pulp

Ok..Intro is over successfully!!Let's get down to business :).Actually talking about intro,some people think that is the hardest part of starting a relationship be it friends or family or any bond.I think its because you as a person is bulk in the sense there is so much about you and how could you possibly summerise about yourself in just 1 sentence for maybe 1 min.And its interesting the way the expressions go in each ones face if you notice.Most part of the population try to have a 'so weird this is ' expression but there are others who know the knack and know the exact timing as to when to stop staring and when to keep smiling and when to turn away.

For example,I am meeting someone who is my collegue's friend and he is a boy (by the way it just happened like 30 minutes ago and I will tell you what exactly was happening.)

My collegues and I went upstairs to grab a cup of coffee and panneer sandwich.We were like 5 of us so we had to keep two tables together.I was a bit late to join the table because I had to take my coffee mug from elsewhere.As soon as I got into the group ,I saw a new face.I silently sat down because he is my collegues friend and she has to introduce me to him.Well,she is not really my friend and we don't know anything about each other personal life.As a result it took like 5 minutes for her to think over whether she has to introduce me to him.But as I figured it out that she is not that rude as a person so she did the task.And meanwhile I was analysing her expressions and unfortunately this new guy was sitting facing me and was feeling a lot weird.

When I analysed his expression,all I could read was that even he was waiting for the introduction but I guess he was preoccupied with something else as well.I say this because as soon as I sat down,he looked at her face asking her(through eyes) who I am and then slowly turned his face and concentrated on his panneer sandwich.After the intro,I could easily say what kind of guy he is.

He is shy because he did not bother to ask about me like where do I stay and what work I am in or any usual question.Clearly he is shy.Secondly he only spoke to my this collegue and to pass the time,entertained my collegue and made fun of her.That clearly shows he is very good at pleasing others(I don't personally like people who please others so much though most majority of us do that).These two characters could entirely reflect his whole nature.If he is shy,then he would not be an outstanding person in his team.If he is pleasing others this way,that shows he doesnt really have anything else to get their attention.But I do not say these are all bad ways of doing it.These are just observations.An individual's characters reflect the way they are brought up.The experiances they went through during their lifetime till date.For any gesture or any thought ,there are reasons why they do it.If a person is shy,there must have been situations in his past life where his peers or family must have made fun of him for whatever he did.But that making fun was not serious enough that he is dreadful about it.So he remains shy thinking that he would get the same reaction from people wherever he goes.
Shyness is sweet and people like it.It shows that you are innocent and do not have crooked thoughts.But to really excel in your fieldor career,we have to break open the shell because competition do not favour shyness.But we all are shy at some point of time in our life because all of us have childish remains with us how much ever old we are.
Okay..Time for me to leave!It's really nice to share my views!Thanks for reading and do comment on it..because even I am shy (a bit)to continue..;)
Cheers!
Thalia.